Maybe the Squeaky Wheel Shouldn’t Get the Grease

We’ve all heard the saying, “The squeaky wheel gets the grease.” It suggests that we tend to focus on things that are not going well. While this can be good advice, it’s not always the best approach. Sometimes, we pay too much attention to the squeaks at the expense of everything else that is working smoothly. It’s important to provide preventative maintenance to keep the smooth wheels from starting to squeak.

In a healthy relationship, there will be some issues that arise. It’s the parts of the relationship that are working well that balance out the rough spots. The key is to determine which issues are deal-breakers and which ones are simply annoying but not destructive to the relationship as a whole.

So, it’s important to address the squeaks, but don’t forget to take care of the quiet wheels. Neglecting them can cause them to become noisy and create bigger problems down the road. By taking care of all the wheels, you can keep the relationship running smoothly for the long haul.