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Personal development

Am I a Toxic Person? What to do about it

January 1, 2025 7 min read

The Question Itself Says Something Good About You If you are asking whether you might be a toxic person, that question alone separates you from the people who cause the…

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Kindness is not weak.
Personal development

How to Show Kindness Without Appearing Weak

November 2, 2024 4 min read

Kindness is Not a Weakness In a world where kindness can sometimes be mistaken for weakness, it’s essential to find a balance that allows you to be compassionate and respectful…

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Family and Parenting

Parenting in the Age of Technology

September 7, 2024 7 min read

In today’s rapidly evolving digital landscape, parents face the daunting task of managing their children’s technology use. From smartphones to social media platforms, kids of all ages are increasingly connected…

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Personal development

Healthy Political Discussions

July 27, 2024 4 min read

After a contentious election season, social media threads often engage in political confirmation bias. Tempers flare, insults are hurled, and anticipatory defensiveness likely contributes to people taking things personally. Can’t…

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Personal development

Autism Spectrum and Dating

May 29, 2024 3 min read

Going on a date can be an exciting yet nerve-wracking experience, especially for teens and young adults with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). The key to a successful date lies in…

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Stress Management

Insomnia and Sleep Procrastination

March 27, 2024 5 min read

Lying awake at night can be infuriating. You finally fall asleep at 4:30 AM only to be startled awake by your alarm. Grumbling about a terrible night, you stumble to…

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