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Counseling Insights & Resources

Practical advice and expert insights from Jonathan F. Anderson, LPC‑s, to support your mental health.

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Family and Parenting

Parenting in the Age of Technology

September 7, 2024 7 min read

In today’s rapidly evolving digital landscape, parents face the daunting task of managing their children’s technology use. From smartphones to social media platforms, kids of all ages are increasingly connected…

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Personal development

Healthy Political Discussions

July 27, 2024 4 min read

After a contentious election season, social media threads often engage in political confirmation bias. Tempers flare, insults are hurled, and anticipatory defensiveness likely contributes to people taking things personally. Can’t…

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Personal development

Autism Spectrum and Dating

May 29, 2024 3 min read

Going on a date can be an exciting yet nerve-wracking experience, especially for teens and young adults with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). The key to a successful date lies in…

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Stress Management

Insomnia and Sleep Procrastination

March 27, 2024 5 min read

Lying awake at night can be infuriating. You finally fall asleep at 4:30 AM only to be startled awake by your alarm. Grumbling about a terrible night, you stumble to…

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Couples and Marriage Counseling

How to Beat Fear of Relationships and Intimacy

December 5, 2023 1 min read

Overcoming Fear of Relationships with Counseling In a previous post, I addressed the topic of Fear of Relationships (Romantic Anxiety). In this post, I will discuss how counseling can help…

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Stress Management

How to Stop Being a Martyr

December 4, 2023 3 min read

Stop Setting Yourself on Fire to Keep Everybody Else Warm Have you ever felt like you’re constantly putting out fires in your personal or professional life? Do you find yourself…

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Family and Parenting

Why do I hate my parents?!

December 2, 2023 3 min read

Why Do Teens Often Feel Resentful Toward Their Parents? As a teenager, it’s normal to feel irritated, annoyed, angry, or even resentful towards your parents. They can be overprotective, and…

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Stress Management

Healthy Selfishness

December 2, 2023 2 min read

Have you ever wondered how selfishness can be healthy? The idea may seem paradoxical, but practicing healthy selfishness can be a kind and effective way to manage stress. So, what…

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