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Practical advice and expert insights from Jonathan F. Anderson, LPC‑s, to support your mental health.

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Family and Parenting

How to Talk to Your Kids About Drugs

August 17, 2023 3 min read

Strategies for connecting with kids about life-and-death issues Discussing drugs with your children can be a challenging yet crucial conversation. As a parent, it’s important to approach these discussions in…

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Couples and Marriage Counseling

How to Breakup Without Being Cruel

August 8, 2023 4 min read

A Guide to Breakup Etiquette for Adults and Teens Breaking up with someone is undoubtedly one of the most challenging and emotionally charged experiences we may encounter in our lives.…

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Image of Peanuts character Linus standing on a pink stage talking about the true meaning of Christmas. His blanket is on the ground beside him.
Personal development

Linus Drops his Blanket

December 9, 2018 2 min read

In the classic A Charlie Brown Christmas, Charlie Brown frantically asks if anybody knows the true meaning of Christmas. The eternally sweet Linus, with his security blanket in tow, walks…

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Digital illustration of a human head with brainwave patterns for mental health therapy.
Personal development

Metacognition: Awareness of Awareness

May 29, 2017 4 min read

How Mindfulness Practice Cultivates Metacognition Metacognition is a valuable outcome of mindfulness practice. Mindfulness is the practice of noticing what is in your awareness without judging it as good or…

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Anxiety

Romantic Anxiety: Fear of Relationships

February 22, 2017 6 min read

Understanding Different Forms of Romantic Anxiety When it comes to dating and romantic intimacy, there are various anxieties that people experience. Although these fears are related to each other, each…

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Man experiencing neck pain, seeking relief through therapy.
Personal development

Pain is a Feeling . . . Suffering is a Thought

February 9, 2017 2 min read

The Difference between Pain and Suffering When you stub your toe, you feel pain physically. Suffering, on the other hand, is the mental turmoil that arises when you judge the…

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man facing anticipatory anxiety
Anxiety

Anticipatory Anxiety

November 22, 2016 6 min read

Ever get nervous about becoming uncomfortably anxious before you’re even in an anxiety-provoking situation? It’s like looking over your shoulder, wondering when your boss is going to catch you surfing…

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Healthy plant sprouting from a tree stump, representing resiliency after healing.
Stress Management

Resiliency

February 8, 2016 2 min read

Imagine a tree stump with a small sapling growing up from it. You’ll notice that this tree was chopped down, only to “bounce back” by re-sprouting new leaves! This tree…

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Divorced parents arguing in front of an upset child.
Couples and Marriage Counseling

Co-parenting

November 12, 2015 6 min read

Ever see a divorced couple that seems to get along great and wonder how they do it? It’s effective Co-Parenting. There are skills that can be learned to cultivate a…

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